What makes an alpha male truly alpha. Here are some essential characteristics.

1. Brains and not brawns anymore
The Alpha Man is fully aware that in modern times, men do not have to demarcate his territory, do not have to fight enemies to protect his home and hearth. Our times have encouraged a new breed of intelligent men who use wit and brains to dominate over people. The Alpha Man diligently follows this belief.

2. Knows his mind
The Alpha Man is completely focused on his mission in life and actively pursues it with single-minded devotion. A quick decision taker, he works towards fulfilling his pre-determined goals.

3. Man in a perpetual hurry
The Alpha Man has not a moment to spare, lose or waste. He has places to go to, people to meet, appointments to keep. Sorry, can’t wait more than 15 minutes for a date to arrive. And regret, not interested in phone calls if it is on call waiting or hold. Call me back if you need me, for I can’t.

4. I come first, and then my life and interests.
Rest of the world can follow. Not to be mixed up with being selfish or self-centered. The Alpha Man just sees his own interest first and what satisfies him. He hates being a martyr for other peoples’ interest.

5. Creator of his own world
The Alpha Man firmly believes that there is nobody dependable enough to bring fun, joy and merriment into his life. So he creates a wonderful world for himself, a kind of bubble. When a new person walks into his life, he is absolutely sure that the person is impressed by his charisma.

6. Can do without an OK from others
The Alpha Man is very conscious that the world built by him is created for him, of him and by him. In that, he rules, he operates with his self-defined code of conduct, his own set moral values and lives exactly the way he wants to. The opinion of others, good or bad, hardly matter to him and he needs nobody’s approval for running his life.

7. A natural risk taker
The Alpha Man works to make all his dreams come true. Any life that ends in regret is something he wants to avoid at all costs. If you have dreamt it, reach it. That’s his aim.

8. Can be a good listener too
Yes the Alpha Man is “clever” enough to know how to play his card, when and where. Can put his emotional side under harness when he wants to and can listen out a long story at times. For he knows the ones who shout and brag about themselves, are normally insecure, shallow people.

Joshua Goh
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Here are some chat up lines that men can use with women. If they
don’t work, I suggest that you investigate online dating.

Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by
again?

I seem to have lost my phone number, could I borrow yours?

Can I buy you a drink or do you just want the money?

Excuse me, I’m a little short on cash, would you mind if we
shared a cab home.

You might not be the most beautiful girl in the world, but
beauty is only a light switch away.

That’s a sexy dress you are wearing. It would look even better
on my bedroom floor.

What’s a nice girl like you doing in a dirty mind like mine?

Hello, I’m Mr Right. Someone said you were looking for me.

It’s your lucky day. My girlfriend dumped me last night, so I’m
back on the singles market.

Hello, I’m a stranger in this town, could you direct me to your
house?

I didn’t know that Miss America lived here

Jean Scott
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I asked my women friends this question the other day about what things they hate about men and for some dating tips and I was surprised about the response. I assumed lack of money would be one issue women hate. Another issue I felt could be important would be a lack of listening skills. I expected that most women would find most men lack the ability to have a deep emotional connection. I also expected most women would like great sex.

To my surprise I found that most women hated wussy men. They used different words for this. They used words like clingy and needy and a mums boy. It seems most women do not want to be a mum to their man.

Why do men become very needy? I have been reflecting on this and I feel it comes back to how we related to our mums. Did the man feel totally loved by their mum? Just about any man and myself would say that that their mum did her best but she did not love them unconditionally. So the boy feels that he was not loved on some level when he was growing up.

So when the boy is grown up he has a need for love. He feels that his women can fulfill this need of love that he did not receive from his mum. He becomes needy around women. His happiness depends on a woman. He tries to please his women by gifts, flowers and expensive restaurants. He puts up with her flaking out on dates and her over critical behavior. He is NICE. He is far too NICE.

Women hate this!

Have you ever noticed that some very attractive women are not interested in nice man but are attracted to Bad Boys? Do you have attractive women friends that just want to be friends with you? Have you been told that you are nice but a woman just wants to be friends with you?

If so, I feel you could be wussy on some level. Another sign is a fear of rejection from women. If your happiness is dependent on your partner you will fear loosing her a lot. You need her to be happy so you are dependent on her.

I have observed that women are very sensitive to picking up on needy men. Perhaps it is the body language that a needy man uses. I feel that it is also an energy thing that women can feel. I feel women really want a challenge and not a wuss. They love a very confident, sexy man that knows he can attract any women with no effort

For myself to grow out of being a wuss, I had to learn to love the good, the not so good and myself. When I did this I felt a lot more self-love to myself. I became less needy around women and I found I attracted a much more feminine, sexy women as a result. I hope you enjoyed this dating tip for men.

Maurice Tate
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When dating online, you must go through the process of writing a profile. Most questions are multiple choice, but there is always a section where you can pretty much write anything you want about yourself and about who you would like to date.

This section is very popular, and serious women who really want to find someone special in their lives do spend time reading it before contacting a prospect.

When dating online, it is very important to write a good essay about yourself and about who you are looking for. Those men who spend the time to come up with an essay that stands out from the crowd do get better results, more responses to their ads, and also more interesting women contacting them.

The key to getting women to make the first step toward contacting you online is to have an outstanding profile ad.

Here are five tips any man should follow to ensure the success of his Online Dating profile.

Have a good recent photo of yourself. Lots of women online do not even look at profiles or respond to ads that do not have photos. One reason for this is that women more than men are often solicited first by their admirers. That gives them the choice to respond to a lot of people. Why respond to a profile without a photo, an unknown, if you have three other messages in your in-box with photos?

Make sure the photo shows only you and is of good quality. Use a photo in which you can be seen clearly, one that makes you look your best. Most important, make sure it is recent and not a 10-year-old photo.

Find out who you are. Think about it. What kind of person are you? How do people perceive you? How do your friends describe you? Look at yourself through somebody else’s eyes. Ask your friends why they enjoy being your friends and how they perceive you. You might be surprised at their answers. You can use all this information when describing yourself in your profile essay.

Find out what you want. Do you want to get married and raise a family, or are you looking for a casual date at the moment? What kind of women do you like: extroverted or introverted? independent? professional? family-oriented or party-oriented? Take some time to figure this out before writing your profile. That will increase the quality of the women who reply to your ad, since only those who see themselves in your description will contact you. In return, you will be happier knowing that the prospect who is contacting you corresponds to what you want.

Be honest. This is one reason why you should be sure to put a recent picture on your profile. It is all about honesty. Don’t lie about your age, body type, status, or anything else. You don’t want to end up in a situation later where you have to clarify and justify one or several lies you put in your profile ad. That may just turn off your date and get you back to square one.

Be specific. Don’t be general when writing your profile. For example, don’t write: “I like to watch movies.” That does not say anything about you, and pretty much everyone likes to watch movies anyway. Instead, be more specific and creative.

You could, for example, write: “I am a fan of westerns, so I have seen almost all the old classic western movies featuring Clint Eastwood and John Wayne.” You see the difference? The first statement can apply to anyone, while the second reveals something about you (and is also more interesting to read).

You could also write: “Being a typical geek, a nerdy type of man, I sometimes slither up from the darkness of my basement to go watch science-fiction movies.” Since humor and creativity are often a huge turn-on for women, it is always good to laugh at yourself and be original when writing your profile essay.

Follow these five important tips when writing a profile and you will surely increase your chances of success when dating online.

David Roy
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